Friday, September 4, 2009

Confuse......

I had quite a pleasant day today...shrugging off what happened last night....Had a chat with one of my friend...Told that person the situation....and telling what I wish to be and to have..as a friend....But what I was told is I might be wrong....(That would be one possibility which I never doubt about it) about how I expect from a friend...YES..i might have expectations on friends sometimes...but that would be what everyone would have....respect and appreciation...not that I want them to shower me with praise for everything I have done to them...but at least should know what is going on and what I have done and cherish it instead of just showering me with the word THANK YOU.....Every appreciation word comes with certain weight and responsibilities which comes with feelings and would affect the emotion of the opponent....so....never simply say the word like THANK YOU....SORRY....etc...simply..it must come from your hearts content...And that person said that I might over-react with somethings which is just a small matter...( I can't throw out that possibility because everyone always has something that would affect us dearly...this is where the definiton of personality comes)...and this is why we should know more about your friend and have to be aware of what should be said and not to be said...
I had dinner with my group of friends today...I cooked and it seemed that they seem to have changed ( overnite)....I am not going to comment on that...But i sincerely hope that you guys know what is really going on..but not just shower me with the word favor, thank you, nice, etc....coz like I say, every word comes with a certain weight...and I really appreciate what you guys have done for me as well...by helping me....but not because of wat happened yst, but it comes through the sincerity of your heart...and I will even appreciate it more...I do expect something from you guys...which is you guys are fully aware of what you are doing and what you guys suppose to do and don't...and the consequences due to antecendent....( repetition)...but not just blindly doing favors...I don't expect you to keep showering me for praisers, or presents and watsoever....Like I say before again, we are mature enough to think what is right and wrong...!!And once again, thanks for what you guys have done for me today....that would be all for today...have a great evening!

Teddy

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